#DreamMoreThanOneDream Until Your Last Days: In Memory of Carolyn Warren

#DreamingMoreThanOneDream is not just a cute phrase we came up with randomly. (FYI, we own it). It is something we here at ShuEsq wholeheartedly believe in because it is Our real life. And, as we are learning, it is the real life of so many of you as well.

We applaud you all and want to encourage others to get the most out of this one life we have to live. The common phrase is that “life is short”. And even if you believe alternatively that “life is long”, one thing we all can agree on is that we never really know the day when life will end.

Just last week, on March 1, 2018, Carolyn Warren lost her battle to cancer.
We were preparing to feature Carolyn.
And, we or she, had no idea that her life would end last week.
In honor of her life and fight, we still wanted to make sure that we told as much of her story as we knew. We were instantly encouraged by Carolyn, because even while undergoing chemo and taking harsh medications, she still made it a point to ask us to excuse her delay in getting us the info we needed.
So who is the woman #DreamingMoreThanOneDream who fought to get things done through her last days?
Carolyn Warren. An author. An online fashion boutique owner. A mom. A fighter.

Carolyn was just diagnosed with gastrointestinal cancer in June 2017 after experiencing severe stomach pains. At age 30. Given six months to live, she began to write about her life through her difficulties. By sharing her personal experiences, she engaged in a healing process that helped her rise to her full potential and reflect on what she had learned along the way. She self-published these reflections in a book entitled, Carolyn’s Journey: When a Caterpillar Metamorphosis into a Butterfly. But, this book was not just about Carolyn. She cared enough to include a guide that was equipped for readers to reflect on their goals and receive positive affirmations. We also think it is admirable that Carolyn chose to self-publish. She did not feel the need to wait for anyone to publish her journey.

Throughout features of various others, we have asked, how do people get through their obstacles? Even though cancer is unquestionably a daunting obstacle, Carolyn has said, “make it look easy, when it’s not”. Why though? Why would someone battling such a serious obstacle, want to make it look easy? “Because you never know who you are motivating and inspiring. Life is fragile, precious, and unpredictable. Cherish it. Continue to live your best life and stay happy. Happiness is a choice”.

Choosing happiness was not just a cute phrase for Carolyn. Even in the last months of her life, Carolyn chose to celebrate. She celebrated her life during a beautiful event on January 20, 2018, with proceeds benefiting her journey AND supporting cancer survivors. Celebration can be a form of a self-care, which we wholeheartedly believe in. What else did Carolyn do to get through? She searched for outlets and positive people to surround herself with. That is self-care too. Who do you have around you helping push you through? Are they speaking life or discouragement?

A peruse of Carolyn’s social media gave us some additional encouragement. She reminded us that, “Life is a journey; it’s all about growing, changing, and coming to terms with who you are. Loving and appreciating those in your life. Life is what you make it”.

So, dreamers what are you choosing? Are you choosing to let your obstacles get in the way or are you going to fight to the end to get through them? We hope that if for nothing else, in honor of Carolyn’s life and others like her, that you figure out the best ways to get through to live out your dreams…until your last breath.
 Just like Carolyn.
Purchase Carolyn’s book here.

4 comments

  • Mika: January 19, 2019

    I’m so sad she passed and I cannot stop the tears from rolling down my face. She’s been my cousins best friend since they were kids and I always remember her being sorta shy and always smiling.

  • Juliva Vick: January 19, 2019

    So touching! I am moved to tears, inspired and motivated by her strength. We all know this pain to well with losing someone we love deeply from Cancer. I pray for comfort for her family, friends and those who love her!❤

  • Sondra Davis: January 19, 2019

    This is so sad but at the same time Most Encouraging for a Young, Beautiful Queen to inspire others to LIVE In spite Of!
    May God continue to allow Carolyn’s ‘RADIANT LIGHT’ to illuminate in the hearts of all who knew her and others who will be encouraged by her legacy to LIVE.

  • Donna Glasper: January 19, 2019

    What a beautiful spirit !!! Even today as she has flown away, she’s still inspiring. I’m inspired!! #FlyButterfly

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